It doesnt matter from what circumstance we start off. Whether you are the one kind (the sissy) or the other (the playboy). Either way you must make your girl feel special. You can achieve it by treating her in a different way than your good female friends. It refers to the kind acts as well as to the negative ones. If for instance negging is part of your subtle game (no one appreciates an obvious game) its got to be different towards your girl. Dont pull the same negs on your friends and your girl. It only will cause trouble because she will feel put on the same level as your friends.
BEING THE GOOD GUY
If you are the good guy or at least the kind version of the asshole guy then your kindness must be expressed to your girl in a way that she wouldnt expect from you although she knows you are a good guy from whom nice things can be expected.
In your actions towards your girl there must lie a breeze of “Babe, you are my special girl!” But be careful, dont overdo it. Otherwise it can cause a too easy game for your girl if she thinks she has got you all into her. She must always feel like she has not won you completely yet. Stay interesting and always a challenge to your girl but simultaneously give her a full range of secureness and pleasure.
KEEP THE GOLDEN MEAN
Its never wrong to embody both, the good and the bad guy. Especially if your girl sees how you treat other girls – with respectful negging, independence, self-esteem and indifference – she will be kindly touched to see a completely different man next to her the moment you two are alone. That way you stay diverse and you will make her feel special.