Now that is a topic we will talk about not only once.
What does it mean to be a man for your woman in the 21st century? Travelling from one country to another, from one cultural pool to another made me understand that the perception of a man’s role in his own and his woman’s life varies strongly depending on where you are and what cultural background you have.
TAKING OVER RESPONSIBILITY
Finding out that the range of a man’s responsibility in relationships is strongly diverse made me think about why so many men especially in western countries have lost the connection to their heritage: Taking over the complete responsibility with respect to the major decisions in life and protecting their women.
Being ahead of the feminazis who would like to kill me now for the previous passage Im adding an explanation.
As a man you must not regret your decisions. In order to not regret any of your life decisions you must think of all consequences of the latter. Consequences that are not only relevant in your life but more importantly in the lives of the people you are responsible for: your family, your friends and your girl.
COMBINE ALL THE GOOD
Men who say they act like real men and are responsible for their loved ones are often misunderstood. They get criticized because of their barbaric and old fashioned attitude. Talking in extreme terms there are two kinds of men: the sissy (often in western countries) and the macho aka playboy (often in the eastern countries).
You definitely dont wanna be the first kind. If you are and you are not planning on changing that cause for some weird reason you like it or even get turned on by that way of being treated, please leave my blog and never come back. If you are but you dont like it…be my guest and we will change it!
The second kind is the one who gets all the attention and the sex. However, those men are also not perfect. Being the “asshole” is not the right way how you wanna treat your woman. It is easy to pick up girls being the asshole. As soon as you find the right one though you should alter your game. Treat her well – be the asshole to the world but never towards your girl.
Women like men who know who they are and what they want. Women like to be dominated (in a good way) and to be told what to do next. It is the case not because your girl is not capable of making her own decisions – she can! (trust me, she is probably smarter than you are). Deep inside they simply dont want to decide what movie to go to, what restaurant to get dinner at or when it is time to have sex. You have got to do it all. And trust me it feels good to manage everything and to know she is pleased and feels secured when being with you. Women who pretend they are all independent and happy on their own simply didnt get to the point yet Im talking about. Just think about Samantha from the TV show sex and the city. She looked like a satisfied person but we all know she always wanted her own Mr. Big.
Finding the golden mean between the sissy and the playboy is the trick to keep your … lets call it dignity … and to make your relationship work.
The “HOW” will be posted soon!